Let's hear it for the boy

[guavejuice]

it's something I just though about while I was having an online convo with my dear friend soulmatejunkee,who's got the most in depth, wise,sensative insights about QaF,BJ, and life in General.
well,we discussed the way Justin left in S5,and than I thought,gee,this guy has gone through a lot since he first met Brian.he showed so much presistance,determination and optimism, qualities I wish I had,SIGH.

so,insted of sitting here,feeling sorry for myself, I thought,hmm,how about a little game? something along the lines of
"things QaF characters have I wish I had too"

care to join me Flist?

Comments

[trintiff.livejournal.com]

I immediately thought "I wish I had Emmett's flame." His friends kid him about how he's a "flaming homosexeual" and he is surely out there but in order for him to be Emmett; whoever that is for HIM; takes a courage and a love for life that I just don't have. So, yeah, I'd love to capture some of that flame that burns within him that allows him to unapologetically and unashamedly be exactly who he was born to be!

I love this game! Makes you really think!

Hugs, Cindy

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

oh,good chice. I loved that in Emmet.esp after he said "I'd rather let my flame shine bright"
thanks for stoping by,hon.
hugs
Vered

[yvonnereid.livejournal.com]

I never read it properly lol :)
Ok,I would say I would love to have Justins strength!
He just wouldn't leave Brian alone would he,where as if someone told me to leave them alone,I wouldn't fight for them,I just never have.So I will say I want his presistance,determination and optimism and everything else! :)

Huge hugs x

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

ITA! it took a lot of emotional strength to go after what he wanted like that.plus I love that he wouldn't turn into someone he's not through all that (exept for the tricking,but that's a whole different issue. )he knew what he wanted and went for it.omg I wanne be a clever devil like Justin ;)

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

I'd like to have Brian's self-confidence and strength. It's so easy to blame him, a 'selfish prick', but look what he did for each of them. He never says about his love, but his actions speak louder.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

oh,Brian definitely knew how to project his own self confidence,despite the fact he was a hopeless pasimist. I wish I knew how to that *sigh*

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

Brian isn't a pessimist! He is a realist. So am I, btw.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

um,well,I think life taught him to be that way. but I think there are many situations in which he tend to see the worst scenario,like when during the breakups he convinces himself that Justin would be better off without him,and that he doesn't deserve to be love,eventhough he'sclearly hurting over this. it kills me everytime I watch him do that.

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

It's not pessimism, it's love. He cares about Justin, wants better for him. He just loves him, that's all.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

aww,you're definitely not a pessimist,my dear.that's why I luv ya!!
*hugs*
V.

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

I'm Taurus - a realist to my backbone.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

and I'm an Aries.I'm definitely lacking in that departmant LOL

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

C'mon, Aries is a strong zodiacal sign! Everything in this life depends on you!

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

have I told you lately what a great friend you are?
thanks so much for your encourgmant,my dear.I needed that.
*hugs you tight*
V.

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

I'm always here for you, hon. If you need me just tell. Or PM.
Love and kisses,
Nastya

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

thanks so much,hon!!
*hugs you*

[pam81.livejournal.com]

That's a great question my dear.
Let me see...
I wish I had Justin's determination.
I've always appreciated the way he fights for everything he believes in. Yes, sometimes he's a drama queen, but who cares? Look at his results...

I'd also love to be more self-confident, like Brian.
It helps you a lot in you believe in yourself and in what you are. I'd love also to be sarcastic just like him.

Hugs ♥

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

Justin's drama queen moments are part of his charm,don't you think? ;) but his determination sure made up for that =]
oh,and Brian's sarcasm,definitely =D
thanks,hon.

[pam81.livejournal.com]

Oh yes, I definitely agree... A drama queen!Justin is one of my favorite. Above all because there's only one person that is able to deAL with him in those moments... ;)

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

um,I wish I had that too =D

[soulmatejunkee.livejournal.com]

Huh?

Was this about my comment with the "doomloop"? That Brian might feel he isn't worth of being loved by Justin, but with his passive behaviour me made Justin wonders, if he isn't worth to be fight for?

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

yes,that one.
you do have a way with words,my dear Steffi,and it actually got me thinking about Justin,and how emotionaly strong he needed to be,to deal with BK *sigh*