I am not amused...

[guavejuice]

actually I'm freaking out >.<

ok,explain it to me like I'm a 3 year old... I take EVERY step possible to protect my safe place, I get this beautiful "friends only" banner, (thank you again,my dear Viv! ) I use the friends only option on my entries,and yet I don't feel compeletly safe...
so,listen, bloodvesselqaf I don't know you,you're NOT on my flist,I never read any of your comments to one of my friends entreis,and I never commented on yours. I don't know how you got on my flist,but again I must ask you to leave!!
THIS IS A FRIENDS ONLY JOURNAL!! PLEASE RESPECT MY WHISHES AND DO NOT ADD ME TO YOUR FLIST OR CONTACT ME WITHOUT MY PREMISSION!!
thank you!!

I will leave this entry unlocked,so you might have a chance to read it,but that's it...

Comments

[yvonnereid.livejournal.com]

Hi Vered,

Today im getting sex companies on livejournal commenting to my posts,how the hell they get in I have no idea.

I thought this place was meant to be secure!

I don't even go into those journals so I marked them as spam,I may have to lock my fics journal btw but your a member there so you won't not be able to read whats written.

We will have to get this fixed,let me know how you get on hon :)
Huge hugs,Vonnie x

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

aww,thank you so much,my dear Vonnie!!
can I PM you?
huge hugs
V.

[manueladb.livejournal.com]

I think you make too big deal out of this, you have no reason to worry. Not everyone is out there to hurt you or anything. I checked this person LJ and they seem just a QAF fan like you or me. Anyway, you're not on their friends list, so they didn't add you. I saw they left a comment on your other entry, even though I don't know what they asked. But it's normal to be contacted unless your LJ is completely locked. If you leave an open entry, sometimes someone might want to contact you, to ask you to be added to read your fics or just to interact with you. The point of fandom is to interact with each other, so people often look for other persons on LJ that share their interest.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

thank you for your comment,Manu. I adore LJ for being a place where people meet and interact because they share the same areas of intrest. I'm lucky I found so many amazing friends here.but... in some cases I need to keep my privacy.
things are ok now!
huge hugs
V.

[sparklesdani.livejournal.com]

I agree with manueladb, I think you're overreacting just a teensy bit. I understand that you try to protect your privacy, but not everyone wants to hurt you. It's completely normal for people to comment on your unlocked entries, even if they don't know you. It happens to me all the time, and I've made some friends that way. Also, you need to think about this person's feelings. They may have just wanted to praise you on your writing or make a new friend (I'm not sure how they contacted you or what they said) and now you're yelling at them publicly. Sometimes, people just want to be nice and make friends or compliment a stranger. Don't jump to conclusions next time.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

I really love this place,and I'm so grateful for each and every friend I found here,but I have some limits...
I just sent you an email,hon.

[soulmatejunkee.livejournal.com]

I checked the LJ too... it seems harmless.

I've got a spammer message today, too, so I think you're overreacting. She seems to be another QAF fan :)

Try to talk to her :)

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

I admit I freaked out a little...
she left me a comment,so it's all good now :)

[aaa-mazing.livejournal.com]

Hon, I actually don't see why you're this freaked out. People sometimes do want to friend to get better access to your posts.

[guavejuice.livejournal.com]

As I said I adore this place,and all of you,my dear Nastya,but in this case things were a bit different.thanks for your comment,I'm really gratful that you're taking your time to answer.